Twin Flames: Come into Union with the True Self – Phase 6

You’ll KNOW you are in Phase 6 of Coming into Union with the True Self because YOU Sacred Heart are the main focus of everything. No longer are you hyper-focused on your Twin, the alchemy or coming into Union. You’ll enter this phase briefly feeling one way and leaving feeling the complete opposite.

To quote Rhett Butler, portrayed by Clark Gable in the classic 1939 film Gone with the Wind, “Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.” Best suits the feelings of the chaser as they make themselves the ultimate prize of their lives. And this is exactly where your Twin wants you to be!

Moving through the messiest parts of your healing, the chaser in you will now rest on the other side with a new found love for the who YOU have now become. While in the ‘Dark Night of the Soul’, you may have lost your ability to dream… in this phase, that all changes!

From Chaser to Free Spirit: Releasing Attachments and Finding Acceptance

The runner in most cases left it too long. The chaser is now completely exhausted. The push pull dance between the Twins will become super tiring and hard to maintain. Acceptance becomes the new vibrational undertone of the soul connection. It’ll be here that you will stop running from or chasing the fact that you are a Twin Flame and in Union with another soul. It creates too much pain.

As you let go of any remaining unhealed attachments or repulsions to your Twin Flame, you may experience a sense of acceptance and freedom that allows for the final stage of the allowing process to occur. You are in the flow of what is. Ever present and trusting.

After coming through the last two phases, most chasers vow to never chase anything or anyone again.

There is a profound understanding of the difference between going after what you want and chasing it until it surrenders to your demands.

Now you will only chase yourself! Chase your dreams. Smash your goals. Hold on to your values. Period.

All that core truth stuff that you had within you all along.

Rebuilding Your Life After the Twin Flame Storm: From Shit-Kicking to Strength and Self-Prioritization

You will now make YOU the priority of your life as you fully feel the truth of your union. Moving through the biggest shit-kicking of your life as some of you completely dismantled or lost everything you held dear after meeting them, creates a different feeling of UNION within the self.

The main focus now, is to rebuild all that you lost by Coming into FULL Union with the True Self.

Only this time, you are so much more in every way. You are smarter, older which means wiser and because of all the massive purging you faced – you are healed. This means the new life you get to build can be ANYTHING you want it to be.

For some of you it will feel like a huge mountain that lays before you as you might have made quite the mess in your aggressive pursuit of UNION or the running away from it.

You may have even neglected aspects of your life that will need special attention and care. Don’t give up. Keep going and stay focused on the sparkling love that has you lit from within.

Do I really need to describe what the True Self is?

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Beyond Romantic Love: Prioritizing Self-Union and Rediscovering Your Inner Light

Romantic love will be the farthest thing from your mind. No longer fantasizing about a romantic union with your Twin or anyone for that matter. You’ve released any expectations as you begin to see with absolute clarity that self-love brings all kinds of love. Total union with yourself is all that you will want.

That’s another sure sign you are Coming into Union with the True Self.

Another clue that you have arrived on the door step of your True Self Union, is that being here will feel familiar. Did you know it is very similar to when you were in the bubble love phase?

Let me explain… when you are deeply in love with another, you are in fact in-love with yourself.

While in the bubble love phase, every one of us experiences a deep sense of self-love a feeling of being able to take on the world with this love as your shield.

That will come back again as you embrace all of yourself!

Not understanding what I mean…

Make sure to take advantage of my FREE UNION Unlocking Session with me personally Ms. Dee. If you have lost this ‘in-love’ feeling, I’ve got a 3-Step Love Unlocking Method that is customizable just for you to pull out anytime you fall out of alignment with the true love that is and will always be YOU.

Shifting Priorities: From Self-Centeredness to Self-Love, and From Self-Sacrifice to Union

If you ran hard because they were not the picture of your ego’s perfection, this is where you will have a true desire to come into union with them. You the runner will now be making the UNION a priority and begin doing the healing work. You innately know it’s the only way to harmony within.

If you find yourself relentlessly pursuing a love that once was, this is the point at which you will finally release your attachment to the idea of ‘what was’. You will move into acceptance that you must let go to invite in something brand new.

Remember: Letting go… brings you into UNION.

Union with the True Self: Finding Balance in Prioritizing Yourself and Others

The ones who were used to making themselves the main priority in their lives (I say this with lots of love, you’ll know if you lived selfishly) – your lesson within this phase will be how to make others a priority so you can come into full Union with yourself.

The ones who were used to putting everyone else first – Coming into Union with the True Self will now be all about you falling so deeply in love with every nuance of the self! You’ll enjoy making perfect love of you the priority in every way.

From the food you put into your mouth, to the career you choose, to the clothes you put on your amazing body that you have begun building and strengthening. To all the ways you share your love in the healthy relationships you have in your life.

Every choice and decision will be about loving the self. The true self.

Your powerfully authentic amazing – Self.

Expanding Your Love: From Romantic Love to Self-Love and Beyond, on the Path to Union with Your Divine Self

The focus is on self-love, friendship-love, family-love, co-worker love, even loving your money if that had been a relationship you struggled with. Every other relationship will be the focus as you come into wholeness.

Like I’ve already mentioned, romantic love will be put on the back burner and for some of you when you hear this, you may feel like this choice is a forever choice. What ever it is for you… just remember that you can stay here for as long as you like.

You have every right to take your time in this loving stance with falling in love with your authentic self.

Take your discovery of yourself at your own pace, be gentle with yourself, and trust that you are capable of creating something incredible from the ashes of your past by fully embracing this phase of Coming into Union with Your True Self.

Just naturally, as you fall more in love with your true self, the more you will call upon your High Beam Team, God, Universe, Source, Allah… whatever works for you. This is what catapults you into the next phase of Coming into Union with Your Divine Self.

You have experienced incredible alchemy that opened your portals of potential (your chakras human and spiritual) now you are a walking super being. You will become so incredibly radiant in your glow.

How will you use your gifts and talents now?

From Separation to Sovereignty: Reclaiming Your Power and Independence on the Path to Self-Union

Oh, let me mention one little thing. When you fall back into the push/pull dance, this is when your Twin will be working overtime to get your attention. You’ll know you’re coming in for physical re-union because they won’t let the connection go. You’ll come back into harmony and will seek to stay here.

While you declare your independence out in the world, you’ll also honor your Union with your Twin within. Your sovereignty gets enhanced as a result. You are your own voice, your own mind, your own body (physical and energetic) as you rebuild your life as a Twin Flame.

You will become very choosey about what you will keep and will have no problem leaving people, places and things behind, as they no longer hold resonance to your authentic true self vibration.

This will create a feeling of such solidness within. Embrace it.

And one last thing, you’ll experience your Union Journal you built with your Twin differently. If your focus before was on the ‘ownership’ of the union. It will now switch to partnership in ascension. Now you’ll be building a new Union Journal just-for-you! Showcasing all the amazing things in your life that YOU are coming into Union with.

Make sure to get your own customizable version of my #1 Digital Journal Download that highlights the journey of my powerful Sacred Hearts out there who are ready for this next phase!

I wholeheartedly invite you to capture all the ways you are coming into Union with magnificent YOU. Gosh you are both so incredible! It’s my big love gift to you.

Rising from the Ashes: Rebuilding Your Life with Strength, Boundaries, and Authenticity

Rebuilding your life will take on a new fervor and quality. You just came through, for most of you, the complete dismantling of your life. Now you will rebuild from the rock bottom place you find yourself in and build a foundation for something even stronger and more beautiful than before.

Trust me. You will. Even if you don’t feel like it’s possible right now. You will.

Your boundaries will get firmer on what you expect from others and how you will allow them to treat you. No longer seeking outside validation of your worth, the people you have in your life compliment your path in every way. There will be an ease in being with them – no struggle.

Friendships of the past will come back in this phase as you open your heart and mind to those who accept all of you. The raw and the real is what those friendships bring as that is how you’ll grow together.

Surface level connections no longer satisfy as you crave to be known and understood for your authentic self. You just went through the biggest shit-kicking of your life, you’re not about to put any masks back on to appease others. No more hiding or lying. You are a proud Twin Flame and everyone you care about, knows it.

I’m so proud of you!

Finding Your True Calling: Returning to the Path or Embracing a New Career After Spiritual Growth

And lastly, your career. There is a Zen proverb that goes something like this, “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” This popular phrase emphasizes the importance of staying present and engaged in everyday life, regardless of one’s level of spiritual attainment.

Once through the other side of the “Dark Night of the Soul” as described in the last two phases of my Twin Flame Physical Union Blueprint, some of you may find a renewed sense of wanting to get back into the same career saddle again.

It’ll feel like a welcome home as you come back full circle if you had walked away as you became a hermit through your awakening. You’ll go back because you chose the path for yourself as you followed what you felt inside.

While some of you will go on a brand new career path, the way of your ‘true calling’.

If you followed the path of doing what you were told to do or what you thought you were supposed to do from familial pressures. This will be your unification in it’s finest expression, as you will now follow your inner guidance system.

You will follow your bliss all the way because it feels so gosh dang right.

And that’s the bliss of union.

Wrapping it all up in a bow…

In summary, coming into UNION with your True Self is a liberating act of complete and total self acceptance. You faced the shadow within and now you will fully embrace your potential in all its forms.

The idea behind the saying that I opened with in the previous section, is that enlightenment is not a separate or elevated state of being, but rather a shift in perspective that can be integrated into all aspects of life.

Even after achieving enlightenment, one still needs to engage in the mundane tasks of daily life, such as chopping wood and carrying water. But with the newfound perspective of enlightenment, those tasks take on a new significance and can be approached with greater presence and awareness.

Now you have the power to transform those around you just by being the light and love, you embody as a True Twin Flame. You will feel the love that you were in the first phase of falling madly in love because you are falling madly in love with you.

Shine your brilliant light. And you will soon see how the road comes up to meet you. Abundance will fill your bank account, your health will be seen as a natural youthful glow while new and old connections will flourish in the presence of your most magnificent self.

This is UNION. Being YOU is union.

Psst… here’s the secret to Twin Flame union… UNION does not come from your mental mind. Union is found in your Sacred Heart Connection, higher heart and your crown chakra (higher mind).

Coming Up Next…

Coming into Union with Your Divine Self – is a phase that I just gush over!

This can be the most delicious phase of the journey, oh heck what am I saying, all of the phases are delicious in their unfolding as you become your most magnificent self. But this phase is where you really embrace your light and love in it’s fullest expression as you literally become angelic to everyone around you. Opportunities galore will be coming out of the wood work and laid at your feet.

Until next time…

So much love and light to you Sacred Heart!

I’m Ms. Dee – Your Sacred Union Coach.